That makes me feel bad. if something's in the memories, and you know it's there, just refer them nicely, and maybe even link to the entry. If you suspect it's in the memories, but don't know, look for it yourself before you comment angrily! if you don't want to go through all that, maybe it'd be easier to answer the question, or just not say anything at all.
I'm not going to apologize, because this isn't flame bait, and you shouldn't take it that way.